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    Friday, July 4, 2008


    Pasir Ris Secondary School
    390 Tampines St 21
    Singapore 529400

    3 July 2008

    Mr Mah Bow Tan
    Minister of National Development
    Member of Tampines GRC

    Dear Mr Mah

    Re : FEETBACK ABOUT THE PLAYGROUND IN TAMPINES

    I am a student from Pasir Ris Secondary School. The purpose of writing this letter to you is to notify you feedbacks and suggestions about the playgrounds in the neighbourhood in Tampines to improve them. I strongly felt that the playgrounds in the Tampines district area should be equipped with enhanced and advanced facilities to cater to the residents’ requirements.

    Recently, we did a project based on playgrounds.For our project, we were supposed to design a playground for the children with emotional scars. Before doing any other thing, we did a research on these children first; we did research on what causes children to have emotional scars, the special needs of these children and the ways we can help them when designing the playground. Through our research, we found out that a child who suffer from emotional scars is due to the abuse he or she had which emotionally affected him or her. Emotional abuse is defined as the systematic "tearing down" of another human being. It attacks the child's psyche & self-concept, the victim would come to the point where he or she sees themselves as unworthy of love & affection. For these children, they will really need as much care and love they can receive, the sense of security and also to be taught with values. Towards these needs, we design a colourful, close to nature and fairytale-liked structures of the playground to let them feel the warm of Mother Nature which can replace the love that they missed. Not only that we also design a corner within the playground where they can learn their values and this serves the playground as a outdoor classroom.

    During the project, we visited some of the playgrounds in Tampines and we found out some common between the playgrounds. The playground in Tampines, in my opinion, was actually quite original and plain, nothing impressive to attract the children’s attention and we had also neglected the children with emotional scars. In my opinion, the playground should be colourful, fun-loving and attractive, this environment’s main objective should be making the children forget their sorrows and relax and enjoy themselves. This specially designed playground should be effective in healing their emotional scars and eventually aid them in many different ways. The playground should also consist of special facilities, such as unusual spiral slides or rides.

    Though it spends a lot of money on designation, it is all worth while when you see the smiles on the children’s’ faces. I hope that you will take my suggestions into consideration and that my feedbacks have help in designing the best playground for the children in Tampines. Thank you.

    Yours Faithfully
    Neo Jie Min from 2E6

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    Pasir Ris Secondary School
    390 Tampines St 21
    Singapore 529400

    3 July 2008

    Ministry of National Development
    Member of Tampines GRC

    FEEDBACK ABOUT THE PLAYGROUNDS IN TAMPINES

    I am Sherry, a student from Pasir Ris Secondary School. The purpose of writing this letter to you is to notify you feedbacks and suggestions about the playgrounds in the neighbourhood in Tampines to improve them. I strongly felt that the playgrounds in the Tampines district area should be equipped with enhanced and advanced facilities to cater to the residents’ requirements.

    My SA1 literature project is about the designation of a 3D model playground and a blog, which each group has to make a choice on a group of children who require special attention, care and concern. My group members had decided on doing research about children that are emotionally abused. My group members’ researches have revealed that
    emotional abuse, which is 8% of substantiated cases of children abuse, is commonly defined as the systematic tearing down of another human being. It is considered a pattern of behaviour that can seriously interfere with a child's positive development, emotional abuse is probably the least understood of all child abuse, yet it is the most prevalent, & can be the cruelest and most destructive of all types of child abuse. These children needed to be cared for, so as to assist them to recover from their emotional scars.

    The playground in Tampines, in my opinion, was actually quite original and plain, nothing impressive to attract the children’s attention. If our playground is designed for emotionally handicapped children, the playground should be colourful, fun-loving and attractive, this environment’s main objective should be making the children forget their sorrows and relax and enjoy themselves. This specially designed playground should be effective in healing their emotional scars and eventually aid them in many different ways. The playground should also consist of special facilities, such as unusual spiral slides or rides. Though it spends a lot of money on designation, it is all worth while when you see the smiles on the children’s’ faces. I hope that you will take my suggestions into consideration and I look forward to your reply. Thank You.

    Yours truly
    Sherry Chua Jia Zhen from 2E6

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    Pasir Ris Secondary School
    Tampines Street 21
    Singapore 529400


    3 July 2008


    Mr. Mah Bow Tan
    Ministry of National Develpoment
    Member of the Tampines GRC


    Dear Mr. Mah


    Re: FEEDBACK ABOUT THE PLAYGROUNDS IN TAMPINES


    I am a student from Pasir Ris Secondary School. Recently, we did a project based on playgrounds so I am writing this letter to tell you the findings of my project and some of the feedbacks we have for the playgrounds in Tampines.


    For our project, we were supposed to design a playground for the children with emotional scars. Before doing any other thing, we did a research on these children first; we did research on what causes children to have emotional scars, the special needs of these children and the ways we can help them when designing the playground. Through our research, we found out that a child who suffer from emotional scars is due to the abuse he or she had which emotionally affected him or her. Emotional abuse is defined as the systematic "tearing down" of another human being. It attacks the child's psyche & self-concept, the victim would come to the point where he or she sees themselves as unworthy of love & affection. For these children, they will really need as much care and love they can receive, the sense of security and also to be taught with values. Towards these needs, we design a colourful, close to nature and fairytale-liked structures of the playground to let them feel the warm of Mother Nature which can replace the love that they missed. Not only that we also design a corner within the playground where they can learn their values and this serves the playground as a outdoor classroom.

    During the project, we visited some of the playgrounds in Tampines and we found out some common between the playgrounds. Currently, the design of the playgrounds are very similar; a slide, shelter where children climb up to have a view of the whole playground and some with swings. In my opinion, I find the playgrounds not attractive enough to let every children see it and want to go and the playgrounds also did not suit the needs of children with emotional scars. To improve the playgrounds, I think the playgrounds should have much special features such as irregular shape of a spiral slide or a castle-liked shelter for them to play in.

    Even though it maybe very costly to rebuild these playground, I think that it is worth it as if you can see alot of children at the playground enjoying themselves and are playing as happy as a lark. It will be very touched to see them so happy. I hope that my feedbacks have help in designing the best playground for the children in Tampines. Thank you.

    Yours Faithfully
    Neo Jie Min, a student of Pasir Ris Secondary School

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    Pasir Ris Secondary School
    390 Tampines St 21
    Singapore 529400

    3 July 2008

    Mr Mah Bow Tan
    Minister of National Development
    Member of Tampines GRC

    Dear Mr Mah

    Re : FEETBACK ABOUT THE PLAYGROUND IN TAMPINES

    I am writing to inform you about the playground in Tampines. The playground was dazzling at firstsight but it is safe for children, especially for the handicapped children. However now, the playground is an eye-sore. The facilities at the playground are a safety-hazzard. Recently, I witnessed that the swing were broken. The residents in Tampines are worried about their children playing in the playground.

    My school SA1 project is about making a 3D playground for the mentally-abused children. This project led me to ponder about the playground in my neighbourhood. Due to this, I surveyed the playground carefully. The children who are usually at the playground most often hurt themselves. Sometimes, I can also witness a few children fight each other at times at the playground and there are clearly no supervision.

    The playground is even dangerous to the children who are careful. The facilities there are very decrepit and may give-way at any moment. As the paents are busy with their work. A few children, particularly, the mentally-abused can hurt themselves or attack others around them. Since the ground is not covered with sand, the children easily hurt themselves when they fall down.

    To improve our playground, the environment of the playground should be peaceful and safe. The environment also affects the children. The mentally-abused children shoud not injure themselves and doing dangerous things. The design of the playground should be colourful and captivating. It will attract children and they will feel more comfortable in the playground. To protect the mentally-abused children, we can have a few people in supervising at the playground. The most important things are to make the facilities user friendly, strongly and safe.

    I conclude by expressing my heart-felt request that the issue would be looked into. Over the years, National development in Singapore has seen tremendous improvement. I do believe that these mentally-abused children deserve a welcoming environment.

    Yours faithfully
    Kim Sohyeon, a student of Pasir Ris Secondary School

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    Wednesday, July 2, 2008


    Pasir Ris Secondary School
    390 Tampines St 21
    Singapore 529400

    3 July 2008

    Mr Mah Bow Tan
    Ministry of National Development
    Member of Tampines GRC

    Dear Mr. Mah

    FEEDBACK ON HOW TO UPGRADE THE PLAYGROUNDS IN TAMPINES

    I am Yu Haotian from 2E6 of Pasir Ris Secondary School.The purpose of this form is to feedback about the playgrounds in the tampines area.

    Our school has just done a project on playgrounds for the disabled children, and I feel that we have neglected the children with some physical disabilities. The children with these disabilities could not enjoy the facilities that we normal children could, and I feel that they have the right to enjoy their lives just like normal school kids. I would suggest that we could put the ideas of our recent project on the disabled project into our tampines playground, and make the playground more exciting, and enjoyable for all sorts of children.

    Each time I see these disabled kids looking enviously as some kids were running around the playground enjoying themselves, I would always feel a sense of sadness for them. Having seen the disappointed look in their faces would make me feel more uneasy.

    I hope that you can re-design the playgrounds to suit the needs for all and let everyone enjoy their childhood days.

    Thank you for your kind attention. I hope you can consider my suggestions and approve them. I look forward to your formidable reply.


    Yours Faithfully
    Yu haotian from 2E6

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    Pasir Ris Secondary School
    390 Tampines St 21
    Singapore 529400

    3 July 2008

    Mr Mah Bow Tan
    Ministry of National Development
    Member of Tampines GRC

    Dear Mr Mah

    FEEDBACK ABOUT THE PLAYGROUND IN TAMPINES

    My name is Amirah from Pasir Ris Secondary School. I am in the class of 2E6. I am writing to you to provide some feedback about the playgrounds in Tampines. I hope you will consider my suggestions in improving in the playgrounds around the Tampines area.

    The reason for me suggesting this is because I would like to see children of all backgrounds being able to play happily in these playgrounds. I have done a literature project that allows us to design a playground for children with special needs. Each group was given a specific type of special needs children to work on. My group was doing about children with emotional scars. We have design a playground that I feel, is very suitable for them. We had a cheery theme in the playground with colorful structures and features that will make them feel happier and more comfortable. We had in place some counselors to help the children get over with their past and move on to the future.

    To me we have to treat children with emotional needs as I fear they will grow up to have low self-esteem, depression or may show aggressive behavior. Thus, I hope you will consider these suggestions. Playgrounds should be made with colorful rides and features. In my playground, we had a leaf of value that will hopefully teach the children about values. I feel that this should be implemented in every playground. It does not need to be as a tree. It can be as a fun game in the playground. The playgrounds in Tampines, I feel, have lacked these qualities. We need to create more fun rides and the playground should not be boring to have a few rides. Having more rides will not let the children to be bored with the existing rides as they will be able to have a variety of rides to choose from.

    I feel that we should care about this issue of children with emotional scars. There are so many children who are suffering from this even though we do not see many. I hope the playgrounds in Tampines would be able facilitate the needs of these special children. I feel that these children should not be left out even though they have a disability or a terrible childhood. These children should be able to live a normal live as a child. For that please consider these suggestions and make changes if necessary. Thank you.

    Yours Faithfully
    Amirah binte Ismail, student of Pasir Ris Secondary School

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    Monday, May 5, 2008





    The parts of the model playground :D

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    The parts of the model playground :D

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    The Final sketch :D

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    Saturday, May 3, 2008



    Hao Tian's Reflection

    Our literature group has finished our project on the playground for the special needs. I feel that our playground is quite eco-friendly as it is built using the items that are either recycled or reused. Our playground is built among trees and grasses, there is also a bridge on our playground which is closely similar to the one in the novel. The playground also has a swing attached to the tree alike to the novel's discription too.

    Our playground is designed fot the emotionally handicapped children, so we decided to protect the children by having some people around the playground to help prevent the children from dong anything foolish . Our environment is also very calming, providing them with a relaxing and soothing effect on them.

    The playground has also been designed in a colourful and attractive way, fun-loving for the emotionally abused children. Having this enivronmnt's main objective is to make the children forget about their sorrows and enjoy themselves in the playground.

    I feel that the playground specially designed for the emotionally abused children have facilities and the right environment to benefit them, enjoyment and leaving their past behind and start afresh. The children can also take the opportunity to make new friends there at the playground changing the perspective of the environment. This might eventually aid them in their medical condition.

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    Sunday, April 27, 2008


    Metals should be painted, galvanized, or othewise to prevent rust. All paints and other similar finishes must meet the current CPSC regulation for lead in paint(0.06%[600ppm]maximum lead by dry weight.

    Wood should either be naturally rot and insect-resistance or treated to avoid such as deterioration. The most common wood treatments use in playground equipment are the inorganic arsenicals.

    3 Ride-on monster
    -Rotomoded plastic body with spring, hardware and instructions. '14
    x 15' use zoone $400 each.

    4 swing -plastic tire
    -low-maintainance high fun comes to tire swings with this tough rotomoded design. Molded in eyes with bushings. $140 each.

    4 soft grip coated half length $18 each. Total $72

    1 extended/curve fun tube with 2 face entrances $1400

    2 pyramid roof-$600 in total

    2 bubble window panel-$400 each, total $800

    1 challenge bridge-$1500

    1 merry-go-round-$1550

    1 sprical tube slide 60' 24' $ 2400 each.








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    Saturday, April 26, 2008



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    Thursday, April 24, 2008


    Jiemin's reflection


    My literature mid year project is about the novel, "Bridge to Terabithia." The playground is actually made for special groups of children. My group chose to do about abused children and children with emotional scras. The project was quite tiring as we had to build a model and do a blog. I hope we will get high marks for it...

    I believe that our model is very eco-friendly as we recycled most things. It could be the most eco-friendly model in the whole class. We used cardboards that were thrown away from shops. We also used plastic bottles as plastic bottles cannot be used for too long. Thus, we reused it to represent plastic in our model. We resused white sponge as the grass of the playground. It actually came from me as my mother wanted to throw it away. So, i reused it. My group also used unwanted paper rolls for the buildings.

    There were a few things from the 3-D model that were linked to the novel. The bridge in the model is linked to the bridge in the model that connects the land of Terabithia and reality. There is also a tree with a rope just like the one that Jesse and Leslie used to go to the magical kingdom in the novel. The castle in the playground is also inspired by the castle in the novel. The goldish colour used in the playground was also inspired from the golden colour that was painted in Leslie in the novel. The monsters in the novel are also linked to the rides in the playground.

    Since we are doing this for the children with special needs, the playground must be spacially designed for them. We used attractive colours to make them feel happy and welcomed. There is also a tree of value to teach the children about values. We have conuselors on duty to help them be able to trust people again and to make sure the children are safe. There will also be a fence to make them have a sense of security in the playground.

    I hope that my group does well in this project as I feel we have put in a lot of effort in doing this project, especially making the model.

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    Sherry's Reflection:

    Our 3D model playground consists many items that are eco-friendly. The castle had been created from ice cream styrofoam boxes, recycling plastic box, old cardboards and toilet paper rolls. The merry-go-round is made of compact disc and used bubble tea straws. The rocking seats made from used cardboard pieces and small springs from pens. The grass surface made of sponge coloured in green spray paints. Decorative items such as coloured stones, rainbow fences were either handmade or bought as collections.

    The colours of the playground are attractive, rainbow colours can have a positive effect on children with emotional scars, which many of them prefer emo colours like black and white. The tree of values could teach them to be positive, and there are always hope and more things awaiting ahead, their future.

    Our playground is close to nature, for example, swings hanging from the tree and we built our playground on grass. The pond with fishes and turtles can help the children to interact with animals. There is a case in America, there was a bad girl who had emotional scars just like the children who we are making the playground for. After she interacted with animals, turned over a new leaf. With the animals in the playground, we hope that the children would be like the girl, will forget about their emotional scars. Why we want our playground to be close to nature is also because it makes people feel relax and we know that nature is harmless so the children would feel safe and play at the playground.

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    Sohyeon's Reflection

    The playground is designed to help the children with the special needs to relax, exercise, play and learn.

    The pond enables children to be close to nature and learn about the fishes and tortoises in the pond and the tree can provide shade and a cool atmosphere during the hot days. The swings are hanging from the tree so that the children can relate to the tree for comfort and be close to nature as written in the novel. The playground is also equipped with modern facilities such as slides, see-saw, merry-go-round and swings.

    There is balanced between the nature and modern facilities. Parallel to the novel, there are elements of nature for the playground.

    The playground is safe as well-trained, friendly and patient security guards are supervising them. The castle attract them as it makes them feel like they are well respected as kings, queens, princes, princesses. he designes are accident-proof and the quipment are durable.

    The bridge has rainbow colours and this attracts the children to the park. It makes them feel like that they are important people walking on an imaginary rainbow. This is especially calming for these children who are mentally handicapped.

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    Tuesday, April 22, 2008



    Amirah's Reflection:

    My literature group is doing on the special needs of abused children and children with emotional scars. I thought it would be an easy project for my group to do. It proved me wrong as it is quite hard to complete this project. We faced many challenges along the way. I hope that we will do well in this project as i had a lot of fun doing it.

    I feel that the 3D-model of my playground is eco-friendly.We reused the materials from our home. We only bought a few things such as the styrofoam and satay sticks. As for the boxes used for the castle and some of the items used for the toys, they were reused by the things that we wanted to throw away.

    There were some ideas of the playground that was linked to the novel, Bridge To Terabithia. the mini castle in the playground is linked to the castle in the novel. There is also a bridge over the pond. That is also linked to the bridge in the novel.

    I really hope that I will do well for this project as I feel my group has really worked hard for it...


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    Sunday, March 30, 2008


    What is emotional abuse?


    Emotional abuse, which is 8% of substantiated cases of children abuse, is commonly defined as the systematic tearing down of another human being. Considered a pattern of behaviour that can seriously interfere with a child's positive development, emotional abuse is probably the least understood of all child abuse, yet it is the most prevalent, & can be the cruelest and most destructive of all types of abuse.



    As we all know that emotional abuse attacks the child's psyche & self-concept, the victim would come to the point where he or she sees themselves as unworthy of love & affection. Children who had been constantly shamed, humilated, terrorized or rejected suffer at least as much, if not more, than if they had been physically assaulted. And the worse still, if an infant is severely deprived of basic emotional nuturing, even though physically well cared for can fail to thrive & eventually resulting in death. Less severe forms of early emotional deprivation may prouce babies who grow into anxious & insecure children who are slow to develop or who might have self-esteem.
    Types of emotional abuse

    1. Rejection-- Parents who lack the ability to bond will often display rejecting behaviour towards a child. They would also tell a child in certain ways that he or she is unwanted, telling the child to leave, or remarked them being worthless. Verbal abuse, belittling the child & make negative comparisons The parents would not talk to or hold the young child as he or she grows, resulting in the child to become the family scapegoat; habitual blaming, being blamed for every family problem they encountered.

    2. Ignoring-- Withholding affection, adults who have had few of their emotional needs met are often unable to respond to the needs of their children. They may not show attachment to the child or provide nurturance, no interest in the child, or failure to express affection or recognise the child's presence. The parents were only physically there, but emotionally unavailable.


    3. Terrorizing-- Parents singling the child out to criticize & punish, ridicule him or her for displaying normal emotinals & have expectations far beyond their normal abilities. The child may be threatened with death, mutilation or abandonment.

    1. Isolating-- Extreme punishment, the parents abuses the child through isolation, & may not allow the child to engage in any appropriate activites with his or her peers; prevent teenagers from participating in any extracurricular activities. Parents may tie require the childto stay in their rooms from the time school ends till the next morning, or restrict the child to eating, seclusion or isolation. Extreme punishments could be of such like tying the child to a fixture or even locking the child up in a closet or dark room.


    2. Corrupting-- Parents permitting their child to use drugs or alcohol; to watch cruel behavior and violence towards animals or pornograhic materials & adult sex acts; or to witness or paricipate in criminal activities such as stealing, assault, or gambling.

    Effects of emotional abuse


    Child abuse can produce dire consequences during the victim's childhood & adulthood. Other types of abuse are usually indentifiable as marks or other physical evidence like malnourishment is left, or even going off like time bombs later in life. However, emotional abuse had difficulties to diagnose or even define. In some instances, an emotionally abused child will show no sighs of abuse. For this particular reason, emotional abuse is the most difficult form of child maltreatment to identify & stop. As physiological effects such as cognitive difficulties or lingering health problems may not show up for quite a period or be clearly attributable to abuse. This type of abuse leaves hidden scars that manifest themselves in numerous ways. Insecurity, poor self-esteem, destructive behavior, angry acts such as fire setting or cruelty to animals, withdrawal, poor development of basic skills, alcohol or drug abuse, suicide & difficulty forming relationships could be all possible results of emotional abuse.

    Emotional child abuse involves behavior that interferes with a child’s mental health or social development: one website calls it “the systematic tearing down of another human being.” Such abuse can range from verbal insults to acts of terror, and it’s almost always a factor in the other three categories of abuse. While emotional abuse by itself doe
    sn’t involve the infliction of physical pain or inappropriate physical contact, it can have more long-lasting negative psychological effects than either physical abuse or sexual abuse.
    Examples of emotional child abuse include:
    Verbal abuse • Belittling or shaming the child: name-calling, making negative comparisons to others, telling the child he or she is “no good," "worthless," "a mistake."

    • Habitual blaming: telling the child that everything is his or her fault.
    Withholding affection • Ignoring or disregarding the child
    • Lack of affection and warmth: Failure to hug, praise, express love for the child
    Extreme punishment These are actions that are meant to isolate and terrorize a child, su
    ch as tying the child to a fixture or piece of furniture or locking a child in a closet or dark room.
    Corruption This involves causing a child to witness or participate in inappropriate behavior, such as criminal activities, drug or alcohol abuse, or acts of violence.

    Emotional abuse can come not only from adults but from other children: siblings, neighborhood or schoolyard bullies, and peers in schools that permit a culture of social ostracism (the “mean girl” syndrome. The signs of emotional child abuse include apathy, depression, and hostility. If it happens at school, the child may be reluctant to go to school and develop or fake a physical complaint.
    Causes of child abuse
    Why would someone abuse a defenseless child? What kind of person abuses a child? Not all child abuse is deliberate or intended. Several factors in a person's life may combine to cause them to abuse a child:
    • Stress, including the stress of caring for children, or the stress of caring for a child with a disability, special needs, or difficult behaviors
    • Lack of nurturing qualities necessary for child care

    • Immaturity: a disproportionate number of parents who abuse their children are teenagers
    • Difficulty controlling anger

    • Personal history of being abused
    • Isolation from the family or community
    • Physical or mental health problems, such a
    s depression and anxiety
    • Alcohol or drug abuse
    • Personal problems such as marital conflict, unemployment, or financial difficulties.
    No one has been able to predict which of these factors will cause someone to abuse a child. A significant factor is that abuse tends to be intergenerational – those who were abused as children are more likely to repeat the act when they become parents or caretakers.

    In addition, many forms of child abuse arise from ignorance. Sometimes a cultural tradition leads to abuse. Such beliefs include:
    • Children are property.
    • Parents (especially fathers) have the right to control their children in any way they wish.
    • Children need to be toughened up to face the hardships of life.
    • Girls need to be genitally mutilated to assure virginity an
    d later marriage.
    Effects of child abuse
    Child abuse can produce dire consequences during the victim’s childhood and adulthood. Some effects of child abuse are obvious: a child is malnourished or has a cast on her arm; a nine-year-old develops a sexually transmitted disease. But some physiological effec
    ts of child abuse, such as cognitive difficulties or lingering health problems, may not show up for some time or be clearly attributable to abuse. Other effects of child abuse are invisible or go off like time bombs later in life.
    Emotional Effects of Child Abuse
    Just as all types of child abuse have an emotional component; all affect the emotions of the victims. These effects include

    • Low self-esteem
    • Depression and anxiety
    • Aggressive behavior/anger issues

    • Relationship difficulties
    • Alienation and withdrawal

    • Personality disorders
    • Clinginess, neediness

    • Flashbacks and nightmares
    Many adults who were abused as children find it difficult to trust other people, endure physical closeness, and establish intimate relationships.
    Behavioral Effects of Child Abuse

    Child abuse can play itself out not only in how its victims feel but in what they do years later. Children who suffer abuse have much greater chances of being arrested later as juveniles and as adults. Significant percentages of inmates in U.S. prisons were abused as children. One of every three abused or neglected children will grow up to become an abusive parent.
    Other behavioral effects include
    • Problems in school and work

    • Prostitution
    • Teen pregnancy
    • Suicide attempts • Criminal or antisocial behavior
    • Alcohol and drug abuse
    • Eating disorders

    • Spousal abuse



    3. Causes of child abuse
    There are many causes of child abuse. Many child abusers were also victims of abuse. Mental illness is another common factor, with many abusers having personality disorders or other severe forms of mental illness. Psychosocial factors also play a role.
    Parental choices and other unforeseen circumstances that place families under extraordinary stress ― for instance, poverty, divorce, sickness, disability, lack of parental skills and drugs are often associated with child maltreatment. Many of these factors may contribute to family stress that can result in child abuse or neglect. Understanding the root causes of abuse can help better determine the best methods of prevention and treatment.
    Suicidal tendencies seem to erupt from children who were abused. The need for pain is increased and is normally satisfied by cutting or pulling out of the hair. Coping with pain is something most abused children have to go through. It is also caused because of our gender.
    Effects of child abuse
    Child abuse in its various forms has numerous effects and consequences, both tangible and intangible, upon society, those mistreated, and those entrusted with the responsibility of its detection, prevention, and treatment. Child abuse can have dire consequences, during both childhood and adulthood. The effects of being abused as a child vary according to the severity of the abuse and the surrounding environment of the child. If the family or school environment is nurturing and supportive, the child will probably have a healthier outcome. Children with histories of maltreatment, such as physical and psychological neglect and physical abuse are at risk of developing psychiatric problems. Such children are at risk of developing a disorganized attachment. Disorganized attachment is associated with a number of developmental problems, including dissocializes symptoms, as well as anxiety, depressive, and acting-out symptoms. A study by Dante Cicchetti found that 80% of abused and maltreated infants exhibited symptoms of disorganized attachment.
    Negative Consequences of Child Abuse
    Emotional effects include low self-esteem, depression and anxiety, eating disorders, relationship difficulties, alienation and withdrawal, and personality disorders.
    Physical effects include injury, death, lifelong health problems, cognitive difficulties, and physical disabilities.
    Behavioral effects include problems in school and work, delinquency, teen pregnancy, suicide attempts, criminal or antisocial behavior, substance abuse, aggressive behavior, spousal and child abuse, and anger.
    Prevention
    Given these possible causes, most professionals agree that there are three levels of prevention services; primary prevention, secondary prevention, and tertiary prevention.
    Primary prevention
    Primary prevention consists of activities that are targeted at the community level. These activities are meant to impact families prior to any allegations of abuse and neglect. Primary prevention services include public education activities, parent education classes that are open to anyone in the community for parents or abusers to interact with the child, and family support programs. Primary prevention can be difficult to measure because you are attempting to impact something before it happens, an unknown variable.
    Secondary prevention
    Secondary prevention consists of activities targeted to families that have one or more risk factors including families with substance abuse, teen parents, parents of special need children, single parents, and low income families. Secondary prevention services include parent education classes targeted for high risk parents, respite care for parents of a child with a disability, or home visiting programs for new parents.
    Tertiary prevention
    These families have already demonstrated the need for intervention, with or without court supervision. Prevention supporters consider 'tertiary prevention' synonymous with treatment and entirely different from prevention through family support.


    Treatment
    The following are a few examples of empirically supported treatments for child trauma.
    Trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy has been used to help children exposed to any type of trauma, although it was originally designed for survivors of sexual abuse. It targets trauma-related symptoms in children including PTSD, depression, and anxiety. It also includes a component for non-offending parents.
    Abuse-focused cognitive behavioral therapy was designed for children who have experienced physical abuse. It targets externalizing behaviors and strengthens prosocial behaviors. Offending parents are included in treatment, to improve parenting skills/practices.
    Child-parent psychotherapy was designed to improve the child-parent relationship following the experience of domestic violence. It targets trauma-related symptoms in infants, toddlers, and preschoolers, including PTSD, aggression, defiance, and anxiety.


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    Jie min's dream playground:There is a fairytale castle of grand walls & a pond with fishes swimming in it. A bridge of rainbow across the pond, see-saws, slides & a merrry-go-round in the shape of a lollipop. There is also a large & impressive tree holding onto swings. Soothing nature music is played in the background.

    Sherry's dream playground: A dreamland. A place with nature but elegance is present. Spiral slides in light blue, & a treetop made of branches, wood & flowers. Swings attached to wooden poles & a rock climb to the treetops. A mini game of snakes & ladders with cushion dices. A wooden bridge across the stream to enter the playground.

    Hao Tian's dream playground: Has bright colours to attract emo kids. Security guards around it to prevent the kids from doing anything foolish as well as safety precautions stepped up. Introduce more games to get the kids playing, forgetting their sorrows and walk out of their fears.

    Amirah's dream playground: A waterfall that the children could play in. A castle-like tree house & many plants & flowers surrounding it. Domestic animals introduced to the playground, cats & dogs to play with. A long slide, see-saw, and comfortable swings in the open wide spaces. There is alos a food stall such as ice cream stands, candy stalls or food and drinks stalls.

    Soh yeon's dream playground: A cottage house surrounded with fences and a little farm next to it. Tall and green trees sheltering the swings attached to a wooden poles & a mini food stand. A huge slide & a merry-go-round & a swimming pool nearby the slides. The slides varies from shapes to sizes, in all sorts of whacky colours.


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